"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So, its not manly to like to cuddle too?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:yes:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
Wussy to me would be after sex you bury your head in her hair and hold her against you like it's some spiritual experience and you tell her things to that effect, or it's ovious on your face. I mean, it's okay if that's your long time girflriend or wife. But some chick you just banged...lol, it doesn't get more wussy...
Now if you just cuddle up afterwards, but you act like it's no big deal, and you don't get caught up in her bs if she acts like it was some huge spiritual/religious experience, then I think it's that fine.
Ban The Russki
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Babnik said:Is also a wussy thing to want to cuddle before or after sex or just for fun?
I must a girl b/c I love to cuddle (If I'm not horny)!!
BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
:crackup: :crackup:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
lookyoung said:BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
You wait, I'm going to make a thread "How do you hug a girl?" soon.
I do that just to see how angry you get. Its funny to read your responses.