"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So, its not manly to like to cuddle too?
- Thread starter Babnik
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:yes:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
Wussy to me would be after sex you bury your head in her hair and hold her against you like it's some spiritual experience and you tell her things to that effect, or it's ovious on your face. I mean, it's okay if that's your long time girflriend or wife. But some chick you just banged...lol, it doesn't get more wussy...
Now if you just cuddle up afterwards, but you act like it's no big deal, and you don't get caught up in her bs if she acts like it was some huge spiritual/religious experience, then I think it's that fine.
Ban The Russki
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Babnik said:Is also a wussy thing to want to cuddle before or after sex or just for fun?
I must a girl b/c I love to cuddle (If I'm not horny)!!
BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
:crackup: :crackup:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
lookyoung said:BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
You wait, I'm going to make a thread "How do you hug a girl?" soon.
I do that just to see how angry you get. Its funny to read your responses.