"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So, its not manly to like to cuddle too?

Babnik

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Is also a wussy thing to want to cuddle before or after sex or just for fun?

I must a girl b/c I love to cuddle (If I'm not horny)!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on the kind of cuddling "style".

Wussy to me would be after sex you bury your head in her hair and hold her against you like it's some spiritual experience and you tell her things to that effect, or it's ovious on your face. I mean, it's okay if that's your long time girflriend or wife. But some chick you just banged...lol, it doesn't get more wussy...

Now if you just cuddle up afterwards, but you act like it's no big deal, and you don't get caught up in her bs if she acts like it was some huge spiritual/religious experience, then I think it's that fine.
 

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Babnik You Start A Thread A Minute And The Sad Thing Is These People Actually Take You Seriously. Babnik You Are The Smartest Troll Ever. You Have Managed Not To Get Banned. And People Are Not Calling Your Bs.


Ban The Russki
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Babnik said:
Is also a wussy thing to want to cuddle before or after sex or just for fun?

I must a girl b/c I love to cuddle (If I'm not horny)!!

BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.


YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.


BAN THE RUSSKI
 

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Its fine to cuddle, lol. I love to cuddle! It takes me 2 hours to come, so I like cuddling more than sex! Am I gonna talk to the chick how I like to cuddle more than I like sex? No.
 

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Obsidian said:
it's just not manly to talk about it
:crackup: :crackup:
 

Babnik

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lookyoung said:
BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.


YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.


BAN THE RUSSKI

You wait, I'm going to make a thread "How do you hug a girl?" soon.

I do that just to see how angry you get. Its funny to read your responses.
 
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