"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So, its not manly to like to cuddle too?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:yes:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
Wussy to me would be after sex you bury your head in her hair and hold her against you like it's some spiritual experience and you tell her things to that effect, or it's ovious on your face. I mean, it's okay if that's your long time girflriend or wife. But some chick you just banged...lol, it doesn't get more wussy...
Now if you just cuddle up afterwards, but you act like it's no big deal, and you don't get caught up in her bs if she acts like it was some huge spiritual/religious experience, then I think it's that fine.
Ban The Russki
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Babnik said:Is also a wussy thing to want to cuddle before or after sex or just for fun?
I must a girl b/c I love to cuddle (If I'm not horny)!!
BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
:crackup: :crackup:Obsidian said:it's just not manly to talk about it
lookyoung said:BABNIK RELAX WITH THE THREAD LOOSE YOUR V CARD. LOOK AT THE INFORMATION AND ADVICE AND THEN COME BACK FRESH.
YOU HAVE POSTED THE DUMBEST THREADS IN THE HISTORY OF SOSUAVE.
BAN THE RUSSKI
You wait, I'm going to make a thread "How do you hug a girl?" soon.
I do that just to see how angry you get. Its funny to read your responses.