So I just finished my first year of college, she's just finishing high school.... the thing is, I havent seen her in person for about 6 years. Long time. She suggested to me that she wanted to hang out since it's been so long. We had big crushes on each other back in the honest day. I'm gonna do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but I;ve been contemplating on whether or not to make things awkward by making a move on her. What do you guys think? Should I wait until the second date? I don't want her to start thinking I'm a good friend, ya know.
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So I'm taking an old friend out on a date...
- Thread starter Nirvana
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