"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I'm taking an old friend out on a date...

Nirvana

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So I just finished my first year of college, she's just finishing high school.... the thing is, I havent seen her in person for about 6 years. Long time. She suggested to me that she wanted to hang out since it's been so long. We had big crushes on each other back in the honest day. I'm gonna do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but I;ve been contemplating on whether or not to make things awkward by making a move on her. What do you guys think? Should I wait until the second date? I don't want her to start thinking I'm a good friend, ya know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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what ever you feel is right and you're comfortable with. Don't have a plan of action for this type of stuff. It has to be spontaneous.
 

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Drop hints throughout the date that you want to be more than just "friends." See how she reacts. If she responds well, make a move.
 
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