So I just finished my first year of college, she's just finishing high school.... the thing is, I havent seen her in person for about 6 years. Long time. She suggested to me that she wanted to hang out since it's been so long. We had big crushes on each other back in the honest day. I'm gonna do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but I;ve been contemplating on whether or not to make things awkward by making a move on her. What do you guys think? Should I wait until the second date? I don't want her to start thinking I'm a good friend, ya know.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So I'm taking an old friend out on a date...
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