"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I'm taking an old friend out on a date...

Nirvana

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So I just finished my first year of college, she's just finishing high school.... the thing is, I havent seen her in person for about 6 years. Long time. She suggested to me that she wanted to hang out since it's been so long. We had big crushes on each other back in the honest day. I'm gonna do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but I;ve been contemplating on whether or not to make things awkward by making a move on her. What do you guys think? Should I wait until the second date? I don't want her to start thinking I'm a good friend, ya know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wiesman44

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what ever you feel is right and you're comfortable with. Don't have a plan of action for this type of stuff. It has to be spontaneous.
 

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Drop hints throughout the date that you want to be more than just "friends." See how she reacts. If she responds well, make a move.
 
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