"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I'm taking an old friend out on a date...

Nirvana

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So I just finished my first year of college, she's just finishing high school.... the thing is, I havent seen her in person for about 6 years. Long time. She suggested to me that she wanted to hang out since it's been so long. We had big crushes on each other back in the honest day. I'm gonna do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but I;ve been contemplating on whether or not to make things awkward by making a move on her. What do you guys think? Should I wait until the second date? I don't want her to start thinking I'm a good friend, ya know.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wiesman44

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what ever you feel is right and you're comfortable with. Don't have a plan of action for this type of stuff. It has to be spontaneous.
 

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Drop hints throughout the date that you want to be more than just "friends." See how she reacts. If she responds well, make a move.
 
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