BBX
Master Don Juan
So if i go after average chicks and have ug's throw themselves at me, then if i go after really hot popular chicks, i will get thrown on my ass but, have the average/cute chicks throwing themselves at me. Am i onto something?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So Im Raising the bar higher
- Thread starter BBX
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
IceCream
Don Juan
As long as you're moving forward bro.
BBX, like gambling, it's an 'ideal' situation. That could happen, but you could also end up with the ug's still going for you (such a harsh word, but true) as well as the average/cute ones.
But give it a go, I mean sure, again like gambling, someone always gets lucky and defies principle
But give it a go, I mean sure, again like gambling, someone always gets lucky and defies principle
BBX
Master Don Juan
im putting the 7's off the pedstool cuz its only getting me ugs, so i mean if i put the 10's on the pedstool and go after them, the 7's will be easier
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Don't put anyone on the pedestal except yourself.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.