BBX
Master Don Juan
So if i go after average chicks and have ug's throw themselves at me, then if i go after really hot popular chicks, i will get thrown on my ass but, have the average/cute chicks throwing themselves at me. Am i onto something?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So Im Raising the bar higher
- Thread starter BBX
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
IceCream
Don Juan
As long as you're moving forward bro.
BBX, like gambling, it's an 'ideal' situation. That could happen, but you could also end up with the ug's still going for you (such a harsh word, but true) as well as the average/cute ones.
But give it a go, I mean sure, again like gambling, someone always gets lucky and defies principle
But give it a go, I mean sure, again like gambling, someone always gets lucky and defies principle
BBX
Master Don Juan
im putting the 7's off the pedstool cuz its only getting me ugs, so i mean if i put the 10's on the pedstool and go after them, the 7's will be easier
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Don't put anyone on the pedestal except yourself.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.