"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So Im Raising the bar higher

BBX

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So if i go after average chicks and have ug's throw themselves at me, then if i go after really hot popular chicks, i will get thrown on my ass but, have the average/cute chicks throwing themselves at me. Am i onto something?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BBX, like gambling, it's an 'ideal' situation. That could happen, but you could also end up with the ug's still going for you (such a harsh word, but true) as well as the average/cute ones.

But give it a go, I mean sure, again like gambling, someone always gets lucky and defies principle ;)
 

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im putting the 7's off the pedstool cuz its only getting me ugs, so i mean if i put the 10's on the pedstool and go after them, the 7's will be easier
 

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Don't put anyone on the pedestal except yourself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agreed ^^. As soon as you put em on the pedestal, they'll wrap you around their little finger and twwiiiiist.
 
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