"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So if she doesnt like PDA...

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Should I put her on the spot and 'embarrass' her when were out - to kind of tease her or would that just backfire terribly.

Give her a big kiss or something...intimidate her?? or would it be shooting myself in the foot?
 

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I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
 
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just build up intimacy

my girlfriend had intimacy issues (I didn't get a kiss from her for over two months but I was confident in my skills and worked her up). If you don't like her now, then you will be having many problems later on. Trust me.

I liked her personality and believe me it is hard as hell to get through it but the rewards that I am getting are very very good.

Now kissing and all that are really easy to get off of her with me because she trusts me now.

The work is hard and if you are looking for a quick lay. I suggest you get the hell out. If you are looking for a LTR, then I suggest you stick into it. wait it out, you might like what you see.
 
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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
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oh yea Im not really worried about it...was just wondering if that would do anything making it worth my time.

She has some intimacy issues, thats obvious, but..meh..not really that worried about it. has no prob with it when shes drunk tho haha
 
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