"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So if she doesnt like PDA...

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Should I put her on the spot and 'embarrass' her when were out - to kind of tease her or would that just backfire terribly.

Give her a big kiss or something...intimidate her?? or would it be shooting myself in the foot?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
 
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just build up intimacy

my girlfriend had intimacy issues (I didn't get a kiss from her for over two months but I was confident in my skills and worked her up). If you don't like her now, then you will be having many problems later on. Trust me.

I liked her personality and believe me it is hard as hell to get through it but the rewards that I am getting are very very good.

Now kissing and all that are really easy to get off of her with me because she trusts me now.

The work is hard and if you are looking for a quick lay. I suggest you get the hell out. If you are looking for a LTR, then I suggest you stick into it. wait it out, you might like what you see.
 
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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
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oh yea Im not really worried about it...was just wondering if that would do anything making it worth my time.

She has some intimacy issues, thats obvious, but..meh..not really that worried about it. has no prob with it when shes drunk tho haha
 
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