"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So if she doesnt like PDA...

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Should I put her on the spot and 'embarrass' her when were out - to kind of tease her or would that just backfire terribly.

Give her a big kiss or something...intimidate her?? or would it be shooting myself in the foot?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
 

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just build up intimacy

my girlfriend had intimacy issues (I didn't get a kiss from her for over two months but I was confident in my skills and worked her up). If you don't like her now, then you will be having many problems later on. Trust me.

I liked her personality and believe me it is hard as hell to get through it but the rewards that I am getting are very very good.

Now kissing and all that are really easy to get off of her with me because she trusts me now.

The work is hard and if you are looking for a quick lay. I suggest you get the hell out. If you are looking for a LTR, then I suggest you stick into it. wait it out, you might like what you see.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
oh yea Im not really worried about it...was just wondering if that would do anything making it worth my time.

She has some intimacy issues, thats obvious, but..meh..not really that worried about it. has no prob with it when shes drunk tho haha
 
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