"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So if she doesnt like PDA...

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Should I put her on the spot and 'embarrass' her when were out - to kind of tease her or would that just backfire terribly.

Give her a big kiss or something...intimidate her?? or would it be shooting myself in the foot?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
 

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just build up intimacy

my girlfriend had intimacy issues (I didn't get a kiss from her for over two months but I was confident in my skills and worked her up). If you don't like her now, then you will be having many problems later on. Trust me.

I liked her personality and believe me it is hard as hell to get through it but the rewards that I am getting are very very good.

Now kissing and all that are really easy to get off of her with me because she trusts me now.

The work is hard and if you are looking for a quick lay. I suggest you get the hell out. If you are looking for a LTR, then I suggest you stick into it. wait it out, you might like what you see.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I personally wouldnt worry too much, apart from the odd sticking my finger up her bum or groping her tits in a que at the bank or somewhere else in public to embarrass her I dont really see the big attraction with PDA. Its more of a chick trait of unoriginal exhibitionism anyway.

Its pretty weird and probably questionable the b!tch isnt into it, but as long as your tapping it...mehhh
oh yea Im not really worried about it...was just wondering if that would do anything making it worth my time.

She has some intimacy issues, thats obvious, but..meh..not really that worried about it. has no prob with it when shes drunk tho haha
 
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