"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I went out with my middle eastern buddy

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cant wait for his justfication s to why he is right and you are wrong. want a copy of that trophy?
Hahahaha that’s hilarious. Yeah I just saw his response and it’s more of the same. It’s like second verse same as the first.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I talked to girl 2 at first, we got along great but she said she was Muslim and she was a little too chubby for my taste

I moved to girl 1 and she was not nearly as nice or interesting personality wise but still pretty cool and I think we still got along very well. I was not being desperate at all. I was being extremely confident. We hung out for a wile

Girl 1 goes to the bathroom. GIrl 2 tells me "you guys are getting along great" and then she went to the bathroom also and they didn't return

Me and my buddy didn't hang around for long. We waited for a little bit and then went to a different bar
You're not evaluating the situation to learn from it. You need to ask yourself what you may have done wrong. Maybe you bored the girl with too much conversation. Is there a moment you think you could have asked for a number and then found a good way to end it with the girls on a high note? She could very well have had interest in then lost it when you didn't make a move to escalate.
 

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You're not evaluating the situation to learn from it. You need to ask yourself what you may have done wrong. Maybe you bored the girl with too much conversation. Is there a moment you think you could have asked for a number and then found a good way to end it with the girls on a high note? She could very well have had interest in then lost it when you didn't make a move to escalate.
hhhmmm in the past, whenever I've gotten any traction with a woman, they've stuck to me like glue all night long. I assumed she would be like that also

My buddy wanted to take them back home to the house and smash so I didn't really have a chance to just ask for a number and leave...but I would be shocked if she was turned off by me not escalating. It was obvious that I liked her and I was slowly escalating
 
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