So I went out with my middle eastern buddy

[bigdave17]

Finally had a chance to go out with somebody who is a good wingman - dude is good looking, very muscular and dresses super sharp


I only really saw a good opportunity to approach 2 hotties one time and we did approach them. At first, it seemed like everything was going great. The one I was talking to was asking me tons and tons of questions about me and seemed extremely interested in me. I felt great, was very confident around her, not being desperate at all.


At one point in the night though, after like 30-45 minutes, they went to the bathroom and never came back. What would cause that? Was she faking her interest in me? If so, why?

 

[zekko]

Overstayed your welcome?

 

[sosousage]

they were getting ready for ****ing your friend the moment you dont expect it

 

[bigdave17]

Overstayed your welcome?

I thought the interaction was getting better and better as night went on. She was asking me more and more questions about myself, showing more and more signs of interest

 

[sosousage]

I thought the interaction was getting better and better as night went on. She was asking me more and more questions about myself, showing more and more signs of interest

nope you think your alpha by not saying much but in reality she felt awkward due to you not saying anything, then she started asking u anything she could think of to avoid weird silence


i get this sometimes from insecure chicks, even these who secretly think they are godessess

so stop being a creep

 

[bigdave17]

nope you think your alpha by not saying much but in reality she felt awkward due to you not saying anything, then she started asking u anything she could think of to avoid weird silence


i get this sometimes from insecure chicks, even these who secretly think they are godessess

so stop being a creep

there was no awkward silence, the conversations went great

 

[sosousage]

there was no awkward silence, the conversations went great

she must've found your sosuave account and read all the bs you write

 

[sazc]

there was no awkward silence, the conversations went great

"She was asking me tons of questions" you said.

You're supposed to be into HER, ask her questions, make her feel like you are all about her.

There was no awkward silence because she filled the awkward silence with questions about you.

She got bored with the "all about Dave show" and moved on.

 

[IKO69]

who cares.

assuming you did your best and it didn't work out - **** it, nothing to analyze

 

[sazc]

who cares.

assuming you did your best and it didn't work out - **** it, nothing to analyze

It gives him yet another reason to be a victim, that's why

 

[sosousage]

It gives him yet another reason to be a victim, that's why

well he could always be a single dad

 

[sazc]

well he could always be a single dad

Lol, first he has to find a woman. Don't put the cart before the horse....

 

[zekko]

At one point in the night though, after like 30-45 minutes, they went to the bathroom and never came back.

Do you think they crawled out of the bathroom window like in the movies?

Seriously though, they probably thought "These guys were alright, but they stuck to us like glue. They won't leave us alone, we'll have to ditch them".
You could have made a good first impression, got a number, left and maybe run into them later, let them breathe.

Lol, first he has to find a woman. Don't put the cart before the horse....

He could adopt.

 

[spinich]

Maybe they figured out you were gay. Next time don't hold hands with your wingman!

 

[zekko]

That girl was probably thinking "That Dave guy is pretty nice, but he's only in the top 2% of men, I want someone in the top 1%".

 

[sosousage]

That girl was probably thinking "That Dave guy is pretty nice, but he's only in the top 2% of men, I want someone in the top 1%".

top 2% of men with receding line

 

[Mike32ct]

A number of things may have happened. Obviously, this just speculation...

Girl #1 - Chick who seemed to like Dave

Girl #2 - Other chick

1. Perhaps Girl #2 wasn’t really interested in Dave’s friend (although she may have faked being polite). So, Girl #1 started to sense the boredom/frustration of Girl #2 and decided to politely end it.

2. Girl #1 was burned out from doing all the talking and question asking.

3. Girl #1 was looking to exchange numbers or dance, or something more than just talk. She eventually friend -zoned or got bored with Dave because it was only talking going on.

 

[corrector]

At one point in the night though, after like 30-45 minutes, they went to the bathroom and never came back. What would cause that? Was she faking her interest in me? If so, why?

You didn't see the latest Mission Impossible movie washroom scene. Maybe they were involved in some high level spy stuff that could have got everyone killed that night.

 

[sazc]

That girl was probably thinking "That Dave guy is pretty nice, but he's only in the top 2% of men, I want someone in the top 1%".

 

[bigdave17]

"She was asking me tons of questions" you said.

You're supposed to be into HER, ask her questions, make her feel like you are all about her.

There was no awkward silence because she filled the awkward silence with questions about you.

She got bored with the "all about Dave show" and moved on.

I was asking her questions about herself too, it was just flowing nicely. It's not like I kept the focus on myself, she was the one constantly putting the focus on me

but I really was being extremely confident around her

so the one I was talking to went to the bathroom and her friend stayed for like 10 seconds and tells me "you guys are getting along great". Then friend left and we never saw either of them. Really strange