"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I went out with my middle eastern buddy

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sazc said:
cant wait for his justfication s to why he is right and you are wrong. want a copy of that trophy?
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Hahahaha that’s hilarious. Yeah I just saw his response and it’s more of the same. It’s like second verse same as the first.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigdave17 said:
I talked to girl 2 at first, we got along great but she said she was Muslim and she was a little too chubby for my taste

I moved to girl 1 and she was not nearly as nice or interesting personality wise but still pretty cool and I think we still got along very well. I was not being desperate at all. I was being extremely confident. We hung out for a wile

Girl 1 goes to the bathroom. GIrl 2 tells me "you guys are getting along great" and then she went to the bathroom also and they didn't return

Me and my buddy didn't hang around for long. We waited for a little bit and then went to a different bar
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You're not evaluating the situation to learn from it. You need to ask yourself what you may have done wrong. Maybe you bored the girl with too much conversation. Is there a moment you think you could have asked for a number and then found a good way to end it with the girls on a high note? She could very well have had interest in then lost it when you didn't make a move to escalate.
 
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Fzatf said:
You're not evaluating the situation to learn from it. You need to ask yourself what you may have done wrong. Maybe you bored the girl with too much conversation. Is there a moment you think you could have asked for a number and then found a good way to end it with the girls on a high note? She could very well have had interest in then lost it when you didn't make a move to escalate.
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hhhmmm in the past, whenever I've gotten any traction with a woman, they've stuck to me like glue all night long. I assumed she would be like that also

My buddy wanted to take them back home to the house and smash so I didn't really have a chance to just ask for a number and leave...but I would be shocked if she was turned off by me not escalating. It was obvious that I liked her and I was slowly escalating
 
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