Jesus. That's seriously some BS. And the worst part is there's almost never any real closure. People just have a change of heart out of nowhere and it's over even quicker than it began. I really do wish that I could flip a switch a totally turn off my emotions, or sex drive, or both. It just seems like all this dating and relationship BS is more trouble than it's worth.Nothing worse than the freeze out. I’ve been there brother. We’d just come back from a trip to the mountains, that was the last time I saw her ever. The freeze out began right after that and luckily I knew what was going on and didn’t make a fool out of myself. Looking back now, we’d hungout 2 days before our trip and ran some errands and I saw some red flags that her mind was elsewhere but nothing to be alarmed about. The confusing thing is the weekend before we’d had a blast together, HOWEVER, her ex did text her while we were hanging out saying he was moving back in several months and wanted to give her her stuff back. The signs didn’t show at all that weekend it happened but I’m guessing that was the writig on the wall but I don’t know if they got back together or not. Like I said, we never officially broke up we just froze each other out. I tried to set up some dates after our trip but she never would give me a concrete answer when before she was a plan maker all the way. Now she couldn’t set a date to save her life all of a sudden, NOT the girl I knew for 6 months at all.
That girl ripped my heart out and doesn’t even know it. It was a hard kick to the gut cause I really clicked with her and the fun was always there and then bam, it was over out if nowhere and I didn’t see it coming and I still have no answers to this day. Will she ever come back? I hope not. I played it to where she could if she wanted to since I mirrored her freeze out and did the same to her by not contacting her anymore and we just left it at that.