“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So I got totally AMOG'd by a girl today...

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Before class started today, i was trying to find a seat...I asked this girl in my class if this seat was taken she says no, so i proceed to sit down and chat with my classmates around me... then another hb7.5 classmate of mine approaches me and says in a loud assertive voice:

hb7.5: "What are you doing in my seat?!? Get up, this seats mine..."

Ken785: *confused (she caught me off guard) "Ugh...ok"

Then i proceed to get up...shes says...

hb7.5: LOL..."he got up!"

hb7.5: "Wait...sit back down.."

Ken785: *still confused "huh??"

hb7.5: "Dont let anyone talk to you like that, youre supposed to be like 'B1tch! This is my seat!!'

Ken785:*still confused and shocked "....."

hb7.5: "We were talking about you the other day.." (I was absent)

hb7.5: "We liked your idea on blah blah..."

Then the teacher asked for ideas and i raised my hand....

hb7.5 "Raise your hand higher ken, and be loud, like everyone else"

I did that and was heard....


...so yeah, I was totally AMOG'd by her, in a good way though...this girl is the talkative assertive type...I was never self conscience of my assertiveness before, even though i knew and was told i needed to be so, it hadn't reached my psyche yet kinda.

Today she made me realize it, she taught me a lesson today, a lesson i should have realized a long time ago, I guess I just needed it kicked in my as$ for me to learn, but i'm thankful to her for it. Really made me wake up.

For you guys trying to change into a DJ, remind yourselves that being ASSERTIVE and TAKING CHARGE is one of the main keys...don't be too soft spoken, don't be afraid to speak up with command so you can be heard, also don't take sh1t from anyone! :eek:
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nice story good thing to remember. Reps for you
 
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"you can still have the seat.. but I'm not gonna get out of it..."
 
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Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I thought you dropped out of school?
 
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Corona said:
Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
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and did you not read that i said she caught me off guard?? Im not used to people talking to me like that out of nowhere so i just reacted...im not going to fight a b1tch over a seat.

Bmx- no i decided it was best to stay in.
 
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Ken785 said:
and did you not read that i said she caught me off guard?? Im not used to people talking to me like that out of nowhere so i just reacted...
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It's supposed to be engrained. You shouldn't have to sit there and have rational thought about "being a man."
 
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Geesh, lighten up on this guy. He's on here admitting he did the wrong thing and taking full responsibility for it, wtf is everyone kicking when he is down for.

Everyone gets caught of guard at times. Not the end of the world.

Besides, we lean more from our failures, and I sometimes learn from reading the failures of others. I'd rather see some one come on here put up honest posts about the good and the bad, then continually read through endless posts of philosophical rantings or people bragging about their successes.
 
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Tell her to get on her knees and suck your meaty ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude, any girl that does that to you wants to ____ you! you think they would give the time of day to a buck toothed 4 eyed nerd? the girl is trying to get your attention and is trying to get you to act like a man! she is dying for you to make a move and the only move you should make is to neg the hell outta her. She will be riding you in no time.
 
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Corona said:
Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
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:crackup: :crackup:

He is so correct I think you ruined any chance you had with her.
 
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Tookie said:
:crackup: :crackup:

He is so correct I think you ruined any chance you had with her.
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No...im not interested in her.

Also to joe: I dont think that was the case.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think some of you guys should not be so arrogant as to think: pshh a girl is teaching you how to be a man - how dare she! No. She actually did him a favor, but opening his eyes on something. Yes, she wants to see men behaving like men... that's why she is a woman. And sometimes they notice those things that we dont notice.
 
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DJVladdy said:
I think some of you guys should not be so arrogant as to think: pshh a girl is teaching you how to be a man - how dare she! No. She actually did him a favor, but opening his eyes on something. Yes, she wants to see men behaving like men... that's why she is a woman. And sometimes they notice those things that we dont notice.
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Thank you.
 
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