"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I got totally AMOG'd by a girl today...

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Before class started today, i was trying to find a seat...I asked this girl in my class if this seat was taken she says no, so i proceed to sit down and chat with my classmates around me... then another hb7.5 classmate of mine approaches me and says in a loud assertive voice:

hb7.5: "What are you doing in my seat?!? Get up, this seats mine..."

Ken785: *confused (she caught me off guard) "Ugh...ok"

Then i proceed to get up...shes says...

hb7.5: LOL..."he got up!"

hb7.5: "Wait...sit back down.."

Ken785: *still confused "huh??"

hb7.5: "Dont let anyone talk to you like that, youre supposed to be like 'B1tch! This is my seat!!'

Ken785:*still confused and shocked "....."

hb7.5: "We were talking about you the other day.." (I was absent)

hb7.5: "We liked your idea on blah blah..."

Then the teacher asked for ideas and i raised my hand....

hb7.5 "Raise your hand higher ken, and be loud, like everyone else"

I did that and was heard....


...so yeah, I was totally AMOG'd by her, in a good way though...this girl is the talkative assertive type...I was never self conscience of my assertiveness before, even though i knew and was told i needed to be so, it hadn't reached my psyche yet kinda.

Today she made me realize it, she taught me a lesson today, a lesson i should have realized a long time ago, I guess I just needed it kicked in my as$ for me to learn, but i'm thankful to her for it. Really made me wake up.

For you guys trying to change into a DJ, remind yourselves that being ASSERTIVE and TAKING CHARGE is one of the main keys...don't be too soft spoken, don't be afraid to speak up with command so you can be heard, also don't take sh1t from anyone! :eek:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nice story good thing to remember. Reps for you
 
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"you can still have the seat.. but I'm not gonna get out of it..."
 
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Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I thought you dropped out of school?
 
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Corona said:
Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
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and did you not read that i said she caught me off guard?? Im not used to people talking to me like that out of nowhere so i just reacted...im not going to fight a b1tch over a seat.

Bmx- no i decided it was best to stay in.
 
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Ken785 said:
and did you not read that i said she caught me off guard?? Im not used to people talking to me like that out of nowhere so i just reacted...
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It's supposed to be engrained. You shouldn't have to sit there and have rational thought about "being a man."
 
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Geesh, lighten up on this guy. He's on here admitting he did the wrong thing and taking full responsibility for it, wtf is everyone kicking when he is down for.

Everyone gets caught of guard at times. Not the end of the world.

Besides, we lean more from our failures, and I sometimes learn from reading the failures of others. I'd rather see some one come on here put up honest posts about the good and the bad, then continually read through endless posts of philosophical rantings or people bragging about their successes.
 
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Tell her to get on her knees and suck your meaty ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude, any girl that does that to you wants to ____ you! you think they would give the time of day to a buck toothed 4 eyed nerd? the girl is trying to get your attention and is trying to get you to act like a man! she is dying for you to make a move and the only move you should make is to neg the hell outta her. She will be riding you in no time.
 
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Corona said:
Here's a wakeup:

It is extremely pathetic that you jumped out of your seat when that little girl said "jump".

Do you realize a little girl is giving you lessons on how to be a man?

Read that again.

You need to unplug yourself from your habitual comforts (especially the internet) and spend some time doing something that intimidates you, be it approaching women or any other fear.
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:crackup: :crackup:

He is so correct I think you ruined any chance you had with her.
 
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Tookie said:
:crackup: :crackup:

He is so correct I think you ruined any chance you had with her.
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No...im not interested in her.

Also to joe: I dont think that was the case.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think some of you guys should not be so arrogant as to think: pshh a girl is teaching you how to be a man - how dare she! No. She actually did him a favor, but opening his eyes on something. Yes, she wants to see men behaving like men... that's why she is a woman. And sometimes they notice those things that we dont notice.
 
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DJVladdy said:
I think some of you guys should not be so arrogant as to think: pshh a girl is teaching you how to be a man - how dare she! No. She actually did him a favor, but opening his eyes on something. Yes, she wants to see men behaving like men... that's why she is a woman. And sometimes they notice those things that we dont notice.
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Thank you.
 
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