So I got stood up, what now?

[someguyuk]

Hi guys

I asked this girl if she wanted to come and see my friends band play with me, she said yes. Fair enough.

8pm roles around, no sign of her. 8.15 comes and goes, still no sign. I give her a call and I get this:

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: So, where abouts are you?
Her: Didnt you get my SMS
Me: No, I didnt.
Her: Are you sure?
Me: yeah, Im fairly sure as I havn't gotten it.
Her: Well i can't make it, I have this test to revise for blah, blah, blah...
Me: Well maybe we can do it some other time
Her: Yeah, maybe.

So, obviously I didnt let that stop me going to see my friends band, but it still kind of sucked as she's fairly cute.

I havn't heard from her in about a week, and I sent her an SMS asking if she wanted to go for that drink some time this week. So far I've heard jack sh!t back.

So I have 2 questions:

1: How long should I wait before I say screw it and move on? 2 days, 3 days or what? Her actions indicate a lack of interest so is there any point attempting to carry on?

2: This guy who also likes her wont leave me alone. He wants to know constantly how its going with us, what we've been doing etc. This guy told me she wouldnt agree to go out with me because Im not great looking, I dont like him that much and to be fair, I don't think its any of his damn business whats gone on between me and said girl. Having said that, I need to tell him something. Any ideas what?

 

[poohead]

i'm pretty sure the djb says to not even call back after the flake

 

[mysterymanelp]

move on

just tell him to back the f*** off... To be honest with u the girl is not that interested in you.. If she was interested she would have gone with you enough said..

NEXT

 

[flexion_]

Next.

 

[xectxny19x]

either NEXT or just walk away. Let the girl chase you. You already offered maybe some other time, so she knows that. No need to remind her.

If she's interested, after whatever blah blah(a test to revise for??!!!)...she'll come after you. If she's not, her lost.