"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I got stood up, what now?

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someguyuk

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Hi guys

I asked this girl if she wanted to come and see my friends band play with me, she said yes. Fair enough.

8pm roles around, no sign of her. 8.15 comes and goes, still no sign. I give her a call and I get this:

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: So, where abouts are you?
Her: Didnt you get my SMS
Me: No, I didnt.
Her: Are you sure?
Me: yeah, Im fairly sure as I havn't gotten it.
Her: Well i can't make it, I have this test to revise for blah, blah, blah...
Me: Well maybe we can do it some other time
Her: Yeah, maybe.

So, obviously I didnt let that stop me going to see my friends band, but it still kind of sucked as she's fairly cute.

I havn't heard from her in about a week, and I sent her an SMS asking if she wanted to go for that drink some time this week. So far I've heard jack sh!t back.

So I have 2 questions:

1: How long should I wait before I say screw it and move on? 2 days, 3 days or what? Her actions indicate a lack of interest so is there any point attempting to carry on?

2: This guy who also likes her wont leave me alone. He wants to know constantly how its going with us, what we've been doing etc. This guy told me she wouldnt agree to go out with me because Im not great looking, I dont like him that much and to be fair, I don't think its any of his damn business whats gone on between me and said girl. Having said that, I need to tell him something. Any ideas what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mysterymanelp

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move on

just tell him to back the f*** off... To be honest with u the girl is not that interested in you.. If she was interested she would have gone with you enough said..

NEXT
 
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xectxny19x

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either NEXT or just walk away. Let the girl chase you. You already offered maybe some other time, so she knows that. No need to remind her.

If she's interested, after whatever blah blah(a test to revise for??!!!)...she'll come after you. If she's not, her lost.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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