“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I got stood up, what now?

someguyuk

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Hi guys

I asked this girl if she wanted to come and see my friends band play with me, she said yes. Fair enough.

8pm roles around, no sign of her. 8.15 comes and goes, still no sign. I give her a call and I get this:

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: So, where abouts are you?
Her: Didnt you get my SMS
Me: No, I didnt.
Her: Are you sure?
Me: yeah, Im fairly sure as I havn't gotten it.
Her: Well i can't make it, I have this test to revise for blah, blah, blah...
Me: Well maybe we can do it some other time
Her: Yeah, maybe.

So, obviously I didnt let that stop me going to see my friends band, but it still kind of sucked as she's fairly cute.

I havn't heard from her in about a week, and I sent her an SMS asking if she wanted to go for that drink some time this week. So far I've heard jack sh!t back.

So I have 2 questions:

1: How long should I wait before I say screw it and move on? 2 days, 3 days or what? Her actions indicate a lack of interest so is there any point attempting to carry on?

2: This guy who also likes her wont leave me alone. He wants to know constantly how its going with us, what we've been doing etc. This guy told me she wouldnt agree to go out with me because Im not great looking, I dont like him that much and to be fair, I don't think its any of his damn business whats gone on between me and said girl. Having said that, I need to tell him something. Any ideas what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mysterymanelp

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move on

just tell him to back the f*** off... To be honest with u the girl is not that interested in you.. If she was interested she would have gone with you enough said..

NEXT
 

xectxny19x

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either NEXT or just walk away. Let the girl chase you. You already offered maybe some other time, so she knows that. No need to remind her.

If she's interested, after whatever blah blah(a test to revise for??!!!)...she'll come after you. If she's not, her lost.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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