Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So how far do you guys escalate on the first date?

nicksaiz65

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I ostensibly have a date tomorrow. Something very classy, we’ll just be reading books and drinking wine. Assuming there’s no flake, of course. I’ll definitely be kissing her, especially with alcohol the great social lubricant.

But how often do you all fvck on the first date? I’ll keep escalating until she stops me. But I wanted to know what the average was like around here
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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devilkingx2

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As far as she lets you, which is extremely variable.

There's girls who wouldn't even want to kiss on a first date, there's girls who'd fvck you before you even went on an actual date.

There's times where your game will be so smooth she'll be caught up in the moment, there's times you'll screw it up and a girl "has to go to work early tomorrow"

I would say on average, a kiss and some touching is normal. Anything less and it didn't go as well as it could've/should've (but things are just beginning anyway) and anything more is a Damn great first date
 

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I ostensibly have a date tomorrow. Something very classy, we’ll just be reading books and drinking wine. Assuming there’s no flake, of course. I’ll definitely be kissing her, especially with alcohol the great social lubricant.

But how often do you all fvck on the first date? I’ll keep escalating until she stops me. But I wanted to know what the average was like around here

you need to push the boundaries as far as you can not physically but more mentally once her mind is convinced her body will follow

talk about what you like in bed and what she likes in bed ...has she got any fantasies etc etc

threesomes - i found this one really good because most chicks get very aroused when thinking about two guy's fvcking them at once

i remember i was at a house party once and straight up asked this chick if she enjoyed threesomes , she was dripping by the end of the conversation

its all about what you've got the balls to say ......just remember most chicks are wh0res deep down but are scared to show it , they want you to expose the inner wh0re ;)
 

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id also keep in mind that 2 step forward 1 step backward thing can make a women very horny
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The minimum is kissing for a goal.
If I can tell it’s not going to happen I sometimes bug out.
 

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There is no average. Most women will sleep with you after 2-3 dates if you get it right. Some women are more open then others. You escalate in stages until your feeling her up, kissing her in different places and she's reciprocating at that point you need to be in her place or yours and the inevitable will happen.
 

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As far as she lets you, which is extremely variable.

There's girls who wouldn't even want to kiss on a first date, there's girls who'd fvck you before you even went on an actual date.

There's times where your game will be so smooth she'll be caught up in the moment, there's times you'll screw it up and a girl "has to go to work early tomorrow"

I would say on average, a kiss and some touching is normal. Anything less and it didn't go as well as it could've/should've (but things are just beginning anyway) and anything more is a Damn great first date
We have a winner!
 

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The past 6 new girls I have been out with, I've had sex with 4 of them on the first date. Usually the foundation gets laid before the date with some texting and a phone call. Its all about how you make them feel.

If I don't spend much time talking to them before hand then it takes 2 or 3 dates. But I guarantee you everyone of them will and has put out on the first date before.
 

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I ostensibly have a date tomorrow. Something very classy, we’ll just be reading books and drinking wine. Assuming there’s no flake, of course. I’ll definitely be kissing her, especially with alcohol the great social lubricant.

But how often do you all fvck on the first date? I’ll keep escalating until she stops me. But I wanted to know what the average was like around here
It's not like i chart and do the analytics of close ratio.

I font date, as in dinner or anything cuck. No provider crap.

Mostly coffee or drinks. Bounce location and i take my **** out.

Fuse is lit. Very short fuse. If no pull, no d sucked by 3rd encounter i am out.

Low libido, declining SMV and a new egg dropped every month regardless of the delusion pedalled in society.

Smash or next kuz. She can hit me up thereafter. I will be busy running over barely legal chicks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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