"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So easy yet so hard...

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Ok from the start...
Used to goto college with a really pretty girl, hardly ever spoke to her. She didnt really show any interest. Now this was a coupla years ago and ive changed loads since then. Grown from 5"6 to 6"3.. plus some facial hair and muscles.

Now we randomly met at a club about a week ago and she was really interested. Conversation was flowing, and she was giving off the right signs. I asked her for her number before leaving, but she didnt know it :cool:, so instead she gave me her name so i could add her on facebook. I added her on facebook and she insisted we talk on MSN (hope you guys are familiar with that, chattin thing...) I know you guys are against that kinda stuff but i thought i might give it a try. Now ive spoken to her a couple of times, and things seem to be going well...

Here comes the problem... She knows im seeing someone, but doesnt really have a problem with chilling with me. I havent really made progress further than the flirting stage. I was hoping you guys could advise me on how to make further progress...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Been "with them"? That doesn't explain anything. Are you dating her? Fvck buddies? What? You have to be more detailed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So then... what? Do you wanna get with this new chick and cheat on your gf? That's pretty sh!tty man. What are you planning to do?
 
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Hmm basically... My girls going uni this year pretty far away. And I dont think im going to see her for a while, which kinda pisses me off, and makes me feel guilty. Then again, with her going so far away all the time and only periodic phone calls, i wanna keep my options open and keep this new girl interested. Just incase she decides that the relationship isnt working anymore. Not exactly cheat on her right the way.
 
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What are you asking advice for then? To see if its OK? That's up to your morals man.

If its advice for moving things along with this new girl, then are you saying you don't know how? You got a gf, right? You should know what to do.
 
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Further progress? Don't chat on MSN other than to get her digits. Plan something. See her. Start getting her emotionally attached to you. Why are you seeking validation for your desires on a forum? Go for it and don't look back. Stop being so f*cking passive.
 
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