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So does everyone find banging much younger girls easier than older women then?

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Yes, in my experience they are way easier (older). I have gone through a number of them - Never committed-I have only kept around women in their 20's as long term partners.

This is what has happened - typically we both realized what the deal was and cut to the chase after going out for drinks. It is sometimes mentioned that older women are pickier, because time is not on their side. They are preoccupied with locking down a man and starting a family. There is an element of truth to this, but it has not made them "more difficult" to sleep with. When they have liked me (and I would say like a man in particular, speaking generally) they used sex as a hook pretty quickly. As I said before, we are both older and know the score and would cut to the chase. Now afterwards they become more demanding about exclusivity, that is what I have experienced and is what makes them off putting. With younger women they will ride it out longer before giving you an ultimatum.
 

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interesting.

The consensus seems to have shifted in my favour (and experience!) again based on the replies here.

Makes me feel sane again lol. I know female redditors talk a lot of nonsense about this stuff, but seeing some posts here had me doubting myself

I mean, I'd have thought it was obvious that a super hot 18 year old model with 15k IG and tiktok followers who knows her SMV is through the roof who gets hit on non stop would be a whole lot harder than some 35 year old! If that wasn't the case and they really were all 'easy due to their age making them easy to somehow magically 'manipulate', then all of these older guys who don't get laid would just be banging these hot teens to get out of their dry spell, i'm sure!! haha
 
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interesting.

The consensus seems to have shifted in my favour (and experience!) again based on the replies here.

Makes me feel sane again lol. I know female redditors talk a lot of nonsense about this stuff, but seeing some posts here had me doubting myself

I mean, I'd have thought it was obvious that a super hot 18 year old model with 15k IG and tiktok followers who knows her SMV is through the roof who gets hit on non stop would be a whole lot harder than some 35 year old! If that wasn't the case and they really were all 'easy due to their age making them easy to somehow magically 'manipulate', then all of these older guys who don't get laid would just be banging these hot teens to get out of their dry spell, i'm sure!! haha
You assume all hot 18 year olds have a 15k+ IG following. Most are nobodies, and can't even break 500 followers. The girls you're talking about are clout chasers, and generally have an agenda (like promoting their OnlyFans). Younger girls are easy to sleep with. Just have your own car, house, and a steady job. Most guys their age are fvcking losers, so it's not hard to out win them.
 

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You assume all hot 18 year olds have a 15k+ IG following. Most are nobodies, and can't even break 500 followers. The girls you're talking about are clout chasers, and generally have an agenda (like promoting their OnlyFans). Younger girls are easy to sleep with. Just have your own car, house, and a steady job. Most guys their age are fvcking losers, so it's not hard to out win them.
I have my own car and place and job etc.
Maybe it's because in the UK girls are driving themselves at 17 so aren't impressed you can drive lol
I just know that me and everyone i know has way way more chance at getting laid with a 35 year old than an 18 year old
The big difference is that the young ones are very superficial and want a good looking guy (ideally their own age). older women care less about looks as they themselves are losing their own
 

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Short answer is YES.

Young women are very attracted to older men who are good looking, in shape, confident (#1 weapon), have game, charisma, and know how to have fun. I bang women half my age and less all the time for fun. You need to strike hard and early and see if you can get them to meet that night or the next as they're mostly really flaky and easily distracted. Trying to set a "date" days out will likely fail. You and they both know what the deal is--a hookup. A lot of young women have older men fantasies like older men have teen fantasies. Just ask them.

Good luck.
 

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Just have your own car, house, and a steady job. Most guys their age are fvcking losers, so it's not hard to out win th
I have a car, solid apartment, and a reasonably steady job. That’s been the case for a while. That’s not enough to bang women 10+ years younger when you are 30+.
 

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I have a car, solid apartment, and a reasonably steady job. That’s been the case for a while. That’s not enough to bang women 10+ years younger when you are 30+.
I think there is something to be said about having the benefits of getting older without having something valuable to show for it
 

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Yes dude.

Aren’t you lucky that you like experienced women? You can get in line behind me and drink from the used trough after I’m done making it really filthy for you.
You just continually prove you're a fraud by saying that experienced women for whom sex has no meaning or value (obviously, hence the experience) are more difficult than inexperienced women, for whom sex is borderline sacred and novel. Creepy, disgusting, and blatantly wrong.

You need to admit that your sexual experience is 1) not in a western country and 2) not 1000 women, clearly, before you spam this forum with absurdities.
 

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Experienced women are harder for a very simple reason - they’ve already been hurt and they know what pain feels like. Once bitten, twice shy.
what in the actual fvck....
 

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what in the actual fvck....
It's common knowledge that older women are more difficult overall for this reason, and age correlates to experience

You like experienced slvts - that’s a turn off for women. It communicates that you have no standards. That’s why you are struggling and angry right now.
LOL someone doesn't know the NFL Raiders team very well, do they?
 
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's common knowledge that older women are more difficult overall for this reason, and age correlates to experience
More difficult for what? To sleep with or to be in a relationship with? Women my age are literally effortless to sleep with, just not relationship material.
 

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I agree. It's a hell of a lot easier for me to bang girls my own age (ish) than a girl half my age. They often will clearly have zero interest in me and my friends when we hit up these girls. All of my older friends tried their luck with the young stunners at a festival last weekend and not a hint of joy for any of them. Smart, successful dudes etc, but zero hope

Maybe we need a new thread so that we are on teh same page in terms of this 'manipulation'. Exactly what to say as an ugly old man to 'manipulate' a stunning 18 year old onlyfans girls into banging you for example lol

But yeah, it's not like 18 year old girls are 7! You can't 'manipulate' them into doing what you want with reverse psychology or whatever! ('Don't you dare clean the floor!!' lol). Most 16-19 year old hot girls have got 5k insta followers flooding their DM's, are hyper aware of their sexual market value, have sky high confidence and good social skills etc. Otherwise i'm sure the many older incels would happily just bang these 'easy' 18 year old models etc

My hit rate with older women is way way better. I really feel they value different things and are at least a little less superficial. I've scored some homeruns and banged super hot girls half my age, but boy, does it take some serious amount of approaches!! lol
depends what type of a persons yoj build

if you are an average guy , yeah

if you are a cool old guy , like gianluca vachi for example … then it should be easy with the young ones

it is not about the money , it is how you carry yourself

truth being told , being like gianluca vachi for most guys is close to being impossible… but there are examples out there . Yoj just have to learn why for some works and for the other not

same guy , different vibes

 

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A prerequisite to banging is to get the flag up the flagpole. In general, a lithe, young woman's body gets that flag up a lot easier than a mature woman's body does. That said, the mature woman is going to be more amenable to opening up the love canal.
 

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More difficult for what? To sleep with or to be in a relationship with? Women my age are literally effortless to sleep with, just not relationship material.
Maybe I should become a Raiders fan

That being said, those same "effortless" women were probably more effortless 10 years ago, and will likely be less effortless 10 years from now.
 
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If a guy is a famous athlete it’s a different story - they can do low value things like simp for slvts, and their sports star status will carry them through.

But for the rest of us guys. A woman will judge your thirst level as a marker of your value and status. Women are extremely sensitive to this.

One of the ways a woman will expose your thirst is she notices the types of woman you’re attracted to. If you’re a guy who communicates that you like “experienced women” then her internal mind will immediately recoil and she’ll think “wtf. Mommy’s boy”
The Raiders have cultivated an image of being "renegades" and "outcasts", have a rep for dirty play, have menacing uniforms (black and gray), and tend to attract similar fans. They are the "edgy" nfl team. Their female fans tend to be "edgy" as well (think of service industry workers of *all* stripes, and women who are fans of Harleys). Something that is well known in America, not so much outside the states.

So in this case, the issue isn't so much being a pro athlete but being part of a certain "crowd".
 

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Young women will bang you easily if you are in their proximity aka work with them. All you need is an apartment and a decent car. You dont need to actually have your shyt together. Just be cute and buy them dinners and take them to cool places. You easily can outcompete men in their early 20's. Men her age have NO MONEY at all.

Older women will easily smash you if you have you shyt together. They look at you as a potential future partner and they are desperate. They may play "hard to get" initially but if you have a good career and are not fat they will let you smash.

I do much better with younger women because I have a car, apartment and some disposable income. I do badly with older women because I don't have a good career and don't have real resources.
 

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I do much better with younger women because I have a car, apartment and some disposable income.
I have that stuff.
Maybe it's just different for all of us based on where we live or whatever., I don't know.


I just know there's like a 95% chance this girl would literally ignore me and have no interest in banging me if i cold approached her despite having all the game there is to know:

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Whereas this with this old one, I'd have a fantastic shot at banging her if i walked up to her in a bar.


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That's just my own personal exprience and it's the same for all guys i know in real life. They all of course want the hot 19 year olds, but them girls just aren't interested lol. They want the young handsome tiktok looking dude haha
 

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I have that stuff.
Maybe it's just different for all of us based on where we live or whatever., I don't know.


I just know there's like a 95% chance this girl would literally ignore me and have no interest in banging me if i cold approached her despite having all the game there is to know:

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Whereas this with this old one, I'd have a fantastic shot at banging her if i walked up to her in a bar.


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That's just my own personal exprience and it's the same for all guys i know in real life. They all of course want the hot 19 year olds, but them girls just aren't interested lol. They want the young handsome tiktok looking dude haha
Old doesn't have to mean ugly. I consider the bottom girl ugly. There's some women in their 40s with banging bodies and have "real" careers, which I think makes them more sought after IMO. It doesn't take much to look "hot" while still young. Don't be fat, don't have babies, wear make up, and dress slvtty. There's been a dynamic shift this last decade where a long of younger girls are looking for older men to take care of them. They usually have impulse emotions and attitude problems. They want to get out of their parents house quickly because they're "misunderstood". Guys their age are still living at homes themselves.. thus any mildly attractive 30+ year old can swoon them and get them living with them quite quickly. But the catch here is.. these are women you don't want living with you because they have nothing to offer other than sex. These women will use up your resources and bring you down in life, if you let them. Personally I'm at an age now where I want to actually build my partner up and grow with them. As cheesy and "beta" as that may sound to some.
 

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This guy approaches this 18 year old, do people honestly think he can somehow 'manipulate' her into bed after she ignores his opener and looks like she wants to get away after he opens her since he isn't her type at all?? (thus she's not attracted. Eve if he tells her her has a car and his own place and asks her back)
 
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