Wow, so we went out to dinner Friday night after work and I insisted on paying even though she offered to pay at least half, after that we talked for a few hours and I invited her to my house and we had a couple of drinks and we actually had sex. I took her home this morning and I told her that I love spending time with her and we kissed each other and she just said "See you on Monday", So are we together or what? I never did ask her out or anything but she doesn't seem to stop me when I make moves on her and especially us making love last night. How will I know if it's official?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SO close yet so far.. UPDATE!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am looking for a relationship now because I enjoy spending time with her and before I just liked her for her looks and now I know she is everything I want in a woman, what I meant by official like how do I make it official that we would be together as boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm sure she wouldn't just **** a guy and thats all she isn't that kind of person and I respect that.
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TO , I sit corrected. Good form!
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Okay, maybe you weren't full of 5hit. My apologies.
Again, you can't just jump into a LTR. Experience a STR with her first before you decide to keep her in for the long haul. Just have fun dating her. It's too early to be thinking of marriage.
What are you basing this on? Did she tell you she doesn't fvck a guy before entering into a relationship? It sounds like you're jumping to this conclusion because she's too nice to be a wh0re. Trust me, wh0res can be nice people. Women need to get laid just like men do. Only time will tell if you were just a quick fix, or if she's really wanting to be with you for the long haul.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.