Wow, so we went out to dinner Friday night after work and I insisted on paying even though she offered to pay at least half, after that we talked for a few hours and I invited her to my house and we had a couple of drinks and we actually had sex. I took her home this morning and I told her that I love spending time with her and we kissed each other and she just said "See you on Monday", So are we together or what? I never did ask her out or anything but she doesn't seem to stop me when I make moves on her and especially us making love last night. How will I know if it's official?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SO close yet so far.. UPDATE!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I am looking for a relationship now because I enjoy spending time with her and before I just liked her for her looks and now I know she is everything I want in a woman, what I meant by official like how do I make it official that we would be together as boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm sure she wouldn't just **** a guy and thats all she isn't that kind of person and I respect that.
Walden
Master Don Juan
TO , I sit corrected. Good form!
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Okay, maybe you weren't full of 5hit. My apologies.
Again, you can't just jump into a LTR. Experience a STR with her first before you decide to keep her in for the long haul. Just have fun dating her. It's too early to be thinking of marriage.
What are you basing this on? Did she tell you she doesn't fvck a guy before entering into a relationship? It sounds like you're jumping to this conclusion because she's too nice to be a wh0re. Trust me, wh0res can be nice people. Women need to get laid just like men do. Only time will tell if you were just a quick fix, or if she's really wanting to be with you for the long haul.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.