So, are you a pretending to be a "JERK" now and

[DJnoob]

be that nice guy again after you get married?

 

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Originally posted by DJnoob
be that nice guy again after you get married?

You should always be nice. Just not a pushover. Don't be nice to get people to like you. Be nice because you are. And if you find yourself in a situation where you shouldn't be nice..then don't be!
Don't accept everything. Draw some lines. Have some rules. But remember that a DJ is always a gentleman, and he does nice things. But never to be liked. That's the difference.

 

[Slam_Jam]

I think "nice guy" is the wrong term to use..."pushover" is much better. It's people that are eager to please others that are lame and annoying. Even I don't like that...I'd much rather prefer someone who has the balls to tell me what they think even if they disagree.

I've misunderstood this too...and I was a jerk to girls when I talked to them and I just ended up coming off as rude...and they would leave. Although, in two cases it worked and the girl was into me.

 

[thefonz]

I'll credit Metal Fortress for pointing out that all this sosuave terminology is destroying how we communicate words. A nice person is not a pushover/please love me character. It's someone who does good because they want to do good things.

In regards to the thread, it's not that I TRY to be a jerk so to speak. I never try to tear others apart or look for a fight with my insults......It's about truly enjoying busting balls because it lightens the mood. It's an informal way of communication that makes you feel like you're talking to a friend rather than a stranger. So in this respect, I'll only stop being a jerk when I become so serious about life that I just wanna stick to the normal routine way of dealing with people. I guess routine becomes an important part of marriage so being a jerk just seems to naturally fade.

Until then, DJ til I die.