“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So, are you a pretending to be a "JERK" now and

DJnoob

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be that nice guy again after you get married?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by DJnoob
be that nice guy again after you get married?
You should always be nice. Just not a pushover. Don't be nice to get people to like you. Be nice because you are. And if you find yourself in a situation where you shouldn't be nice..then don't be!
Don't accept everything. Draw some lines. Have some rules. But remember that a DJ is always a gentleman, and he does nice things. But never to be liked. That's the difference.
 

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I think "nice guy" is the wrong term to use..."pushover" is much better. It's people that are eager to please others that are lame and annoying. Even I don't like that...I'd much rather prefer someone who has the balls to tell me what they think even if they disagree.

I've misunderstood this too...and I was a jerk to girls when I talked to them and I just ended up coming off as rude...and they would leave. Although, in two cases it worked and the girl was into me.
 

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I'll credit Metal Fortress for pointing out that all this sosuave terminology is destroying how we communicate words. A nice person is not a pushover/please love me character. It's someone who does good because they want to do good things.

In regards to the thread, it's not that I TRY to be a jerk so to speak. I never try to tear others apart or look for a fight with my insults......It's about truly enjoying busting balls because it lightens the mood. It's an informal way of communication that makes you feel like you're talking to a friend rather than a stranger. So in this respect, I'll only stop being a jerk when I become so serious about life that I just wanna stick to the normal routine way of dealing with people. I guess routine becomes an important part of marriage so being a jerk just seems to naturally fade.

Until then, DJ til I die.
 
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