"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jerry Maguire

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I'm constantly improving myself in every way I can; body and mind.
However, I think that some people, not just girls are intimidated or put off by my face. I know that I'm not a bad looking guy, I just don't smile enough, or I don't have a happy enough face.

Some of you guys might be able to relate to this.

Especially on those days you just feel down in the dumps, or you just think that you need a reason to smile.
But isn't drawing more people to you in a positive way reason enough to smile? I now think that it is.

Whether it's the way that I was brought up or just being myself, I was never a smiler.

How would you guys remedy my situation? I don't want to walk around all day grinning like an idiot, but I would like to appear more friendly.

Practice smiling so long a day? Or just focus on trying to be happier? Please share some tips.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Defenitely try to focus on being happy. Nothing is worse than a fake smile. See, your mouth will smile but your eyes will not. You cannot practice this.

It does work to think of something funny if you feel like smiling at a girl. Your smile will be real and it will be very apealing. But don't worry if you don't feel like smiling. It doesn't always mean girls won't notice you or find you attractive. You probably just won't be picking up on it.

So, it works to smile a lot if you are actually having fun, but there's no need to be smiling all the time.
 

tiburonIII

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Areyou kidding me....?

DUDE Think about your saying ....

Practice smiling.who the fvck does that..look ...you are good as you are.. you just need to find yourself.

Do you see Van Diesel smiling alot ! and before people found out he was gay the girls loved him...lol

What i am trying to say ..if you are not a smiler dont smile for gods sake! Become a whisperer. Now thats some shyt! Trust me girls like serious people too. Besides when you smile ..lol it must be for a good reason..so it will be a much better smile.

It works kind of like the guys that is always silent but when he finally speaks people think that what he says is wise.....but a wiseman that speaks all the time will be taken forgranted.

I am a smiler but i am serious asweel....ill give you a hint taht might help you ....smile only when youa re making sexual remarks toa women or whispering in her ear. Please dont force yourself to smile more or it will bring disaster!Sex and humor go hand in hand!
 

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Re: Re: Areyou kidding me....?

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
What Vin Diesel is gay?

:crackup:
:crackup:..i didnt know that too..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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