"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerry Maguire

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I'm constantly improving myself in every way I can; body and mind.
However, I think that some people, not just girls are intimidated or put off by my face. I know that I'm not a bad looking guy, I just don't smile enough, or I don't have a happy enough face.

Some of you guys might be able to relate to this.

Especially on those days you just feel down in the dumps, or you just think that you need a reason to smile.
But isn't drawing more people to you in a positive way reason enough to smile? I now think that it is.

Whether it's the way that I was brought up or just being myself, I was never a smiler.

How would you guys remedy my situation? I don't want to walk around all day grinning like an idiot, but I would like to appear more friendly.

Practice smiling so long a day? Or just focus on trying to be happier? Please share some tips.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Defenitely try to focus on being happy. Nothing is worse than a fake smile. See, your mouth will smile but your eyes will not. You cannot practice this.

It does work to think of something funny if you feel like smiling at a girl. Your smile will be real and it will be very apealing. But don't worry if you don't feel like smiling. It doesn't always mean girls won't notice you or find you attractive. You probably just won't be picking up on it.

So, it works to smile a lot if you are actually having fun, but there's no need to be smiling all the time.
 

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Areyou kidding me....?

DUDE Think about your saying ....

Practice smiling.who the fvck does that..look ...you are good as you are.. you just need to find yourself.

Do you see Van Diesel smiling alot ! and before people found out he was gay the girls loved him...lol

What i am trying to say ..if you are not a smiler dont smile for gods sake! Become a whisperer. Now thats some shyt! Trust me girls like serious people too. Besides when you smile ..lol it must be for a good reason..so it will be a much better smile.

It works kind of like the guys that is always silent but when he finally speaks people think that what he says is wise.....but a wiseman that speaks all the time will be taken forgranted.

I am a smiler but i am serious asweel....ill give you a hint taht might help you ....smile only when youa re making sexual remarks toa women or whispering in her ear. Please dont force yourself to smile more or it will bring disaster!Sex and humor go hand in hand!
 

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Re: Re: Areyou kidding me....?

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
What Vin Diesel is gay?

:crackup:
:crackup:..i didnt know that too..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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