"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jerry Maguire

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I'm constantly improving myself in every way I can; body and mind.
However, I think that some people, not just girls are intimidated or put off by my face. I know that I'm not a bad looking guy, I just don't smile enough, or I don't have a happy enough face.

Some of you guys might be able to relate to this.

Especially on those days you just feel down in the dumps, or you just think that you need a reason to smile.
But isn't drawing more people to you in a positive way reason enough to smile? I now think that it is.

Whether it's the way that I was brought up or just being myself, I was never a smiler.

How would you guys remedy my situation? I don't want to walk around all day grinning like an idiot, but I would like to appear more friendly.

Practice smiling so long a day? Or just focus on trying to be happier? Please share some tips.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Caveman

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Defenitely try to focus on being happy. Nothing is worse than a fake smile. See, your mouth will smile but your eyes will not. You cannot practice this.

It does work to think of something funny if you feel like smiling at a girl. Your smile will be real and it will be very apealing. But don't worry if you don't feel like smiling. It doesn't always mean girls won't notice you or find you attractive. You probably just won't be picking up on it.

So, it works to smile a lot if you are actually having fun, but there's no need to be smiling all the time.
 

tiburonIII

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Areyou kidding me....?

DUDE Think about your saying ....

Practice smiling.who the fvck does that..look ...you are good as you are.. you just need to find yourself.

Do you see Van Diesel smiling alot ! and before people found out he was gay the girls loved him...lol

What i am trying to say ..if you are not a smiler dont smile for gods sake! Become a whisperer. Now thats some shyt! Trust me girls like serious people too. Besides when you smile ..lol it must be for a good reason..so it will be a much better smile.

It works kind of like the guys that is always silent but when he finally speaks people think that what he says is wise.....but a wiseman that speaks all the time will be taken forgranted.

I am a smiler but i am serious asweel....ill give you a hint taht might help you ....smile only when youa re making sexual remarks toa women or whispering in her ear. Please dont force yourself to smile more or it will bring disaster!Sex and humor go hand in hand!
 

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Re: Re: Areyou kidding me....?

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
What Vin Diesel is gay?

:crackup:
:crackup:..i didnt know that too..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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