"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm constantly improving myself in every way I can; body and mind.
However, I think that some people, not just girls are intimidated or put off by my face. I know that I'm not a bad looking guy, I just don't smile enough, or I don't have a happy enough face.

Some of you guys might be able to relate to this.

Especially on those days you just feel down in the dumps, or you just think that you need a reason to smile.
But isn't drawing more people to you in a positive way reason enough to smile? I now think that it is.

Whether it's the way that I was brought up or just being myself, I was never a smiler.

How would you guys remedy my situation? I don't want to walk around all day grinning like an idiot, but I would like to appear more friendly.

Practice smiling so long a day? Or just focus on trying to be happier? Please share some tips.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Defenitely try to focus on being happy. Nothing is worse than a fake smile. See, your mouth will smile but your eyes will not. You cannot practice this.

It does work to think of something funny if you feel like smiling at a girl. Your smile will be real and it will be very apealing. But don't worry if you don't feel like smiling. It doesn't always mean girls won't notice you or find you attractive. You probably just won't be picking up on it.

So, it works to smile a lot if you are actually having fun, but there's no need to be smiling all the time.
 
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Areyou kidding me....?

DUDE Think about your saying ....

Practice smiling.who the fvck does that..look ...you are good as you are.. you just need to find yourself.

Do you see Van Diesel smiling alot ! and before people found out he was gay the girls loved him...lol

What i am trying to say ..if you are not a smiler dont smile for gods sake! Become a whisperer. Now thats some shyt! Trust me girls like serious people too. Besides when you smile ..lol it must be for a good reason..so it will be a much better smile.

It works kind of like the guys that is always silent but when he finally speaks people think that what he says is wise.....but a wiseman that speaks all the time will be taken forgranted.

I am a smiler but i am serious asweel....ill give you a hint taht might help you ....smile only when youa re making sexual remarks toa women or whispering in her ear. Please dont force yourself to smile more or it will bring disaster!Sex and humor go hand in hand!
 
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Re: Re: Areyou kidding me....?

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
What Vin Diesel is gay?

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:crackup:..i didnt know that too..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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