You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Angry, mean, and badass = creep/loser. Thats for SURE.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In every one of yout threads the only thing you do is give advice of how to treat women like crap and how to be mean and angry and freak them out.persiangino said:No, smiling like a tool is creepy. But i do think i struck a nerve with my post LOL
Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'PigAdlemPimp said:Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.![]()
You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:persiangino said:No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'
He is either retarded or frustrated to a point of no return.PigAdlemPimp said:You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.