Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Angry, mean, and badass = creep/loser. Thats for SURE.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In every one of yout threads the only thing you do is give advice of how to treat women like crap and how to be mean and angry and freak them out.persiangino said:No, smiling like a tool is creepy. But i do think i struck a nerve with my post LOL
Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'PigAdlemPimp said:Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.![]()
You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:persiangino said:No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'
He is either retarded or frustrated to a point of no return.PigAdlemPimp said:You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.