I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Angry, mean, and badass = creep/loser. Thats for SURE.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
In every one of yout threads the only thing you do is give advice of how to treat women like crap and how to be mean and angry and freak them out.persiangino said:No, smiling like a tool is creepy. But i do think i struck a nerve with my post LOL
Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.persiangino said:Smiling is for nice guy tools. Those that are serious about fvcking have more of a grimace their face :trouble:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'PigAdlemPimp said:Dude you are an idiot, get some prize-ability into your life, if you want to smile then fvcking smile, if you don't want to smile then don't do it, if you are the prize you can do whatever you choose to do and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, confidence is the key here, not if you smile or not.![]()
You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:persiangino said:No you are an idiot, PigadlemPimp. Most of the tools that smile all the time and act nice with women are the most deeply insecure people I have ever met and usually never get pvssy. Only the bad boys get pvssy now adays, and most don't go around with fake smiles, but instead, focus on maintaining their masculinity and dominance. Once you have that mentality girls will be literally throwing themselves at you, while you stick your tongue out and laugh at all the fools who try to impress women with being nice, and 'friendly.'
He is either retarded or frustrated to a point of no return.PigAdlemPimp said:You are obsessed by all of this bad boy sh!t, forget about them and focus on your own strengths and abilities, you can smile and fvck as many hot babes as you desire, it does not make you insecure if you smile, that is rubbish, success in fvcking the hottest babes has nothing to do with a smile or no smile, but in the ability to cold approach, use kino, and be confident when doing it, I have met many dudes who are physically very powerfully built, have dominant personalities, smile, and fvck the hottest babes, it happens beleive me. :yes:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.