"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Smiling - The real answer?

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I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a smile means nothing, i think acknowledging a person through a nod or a touch on the hand is better.
 
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I disagree deathdealer i think a smile with eye contact can be a powerful sign of confidence some people arnt comfortable with people touching them within the first 2 seconds of meeting them but everyone loves a smile.
 
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If you feel like smiling, then flash a full, warm smile. If you don't feel like smiling, don't force a smile, or smirk, or half-smile...just keep a straight, casual face.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dj dreamer im not calling it "the real answer" im asking what is the real answer the half smile or the full smile. Im asking what is the best technique to use personally i always give people a full smile when i meet them but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen. Now i smile at every beautiful women i see and i found if you smile its eaiser to strike up a convo when there in smile mode.
 
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Originally posted by wildchild
but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen.
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I used to think that too. I stopped thinking that after women started complimenting me on my smile.
 
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Originally posted by wildchild
I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?
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If there's a shy or sexual body langaue packadged into that smile then yes.

IF the girl is trying to get your attention or make you laugh then by all means smile.

Most of the time I don't walk around cheese-faced or fake laughing at there dumb bullsh!T(cuz that's the mark of a wuss..compliance).
 
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