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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Smiling - The real answer?

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I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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a smile means nothing, i think acknowledging a person through a nod or a touch on the hand is better.
 

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I disagree deathdealer i think a smile with eye contact can be a powerful sign of confidence some people arnt comfortable with people touching them within the first 2 seconds of meeting them but everyone loves a smile.
 

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If you feel like smiling, then flash a full, warm smile. If you don't feel like smiling, don't force a smile, or smirk, or half-smile...just keep a straight, casual face.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wildchild

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dj dreamer im not calling it "the real answer" im asking what is the real answer the half smile or the full smile. Im asking what is the best technique to use personally i always give people a full smile when i meet them but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen. Now i smile at every beautiful women i see and i found if you smile its eaiser to strike up a convo when there in smile mode.
 

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Originally posted by wildchild
but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen.
I used to think that too. I stopped thinking that after women started complimenting me on my smile.
 

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Originally posted by wildchild
I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?

If there's a shy or sexual body langaue packadged into that smile then yes.

IF the girl is trying to get your attention or make you laugh then by all means smile.

Most of the time I don't walk around cheese-faced or fake laughing at there dumb bullsh!T(cuz that's the mark of a wuss..compliance).
 
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