"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Smiling - The real answer?

wildchild

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2002
Messages
342
Reaction score
2
Age
42
I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

DeathDealer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2004
Messages
640
Reaction score
0
a smile means nothing, i think acknowledging a person through a nod or a touch on the hand is better.
 

wildchild

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2002
Messages
342
Reaction score
2
Age
42
I disagree deathdealer i think a smile with eye contact can be a powerful sign of confidence some people arnt comfortable with people touching them within the first 2 seconds of meeting them but everyone loves a smile.
 

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
If you feel like smiling, then flash a full, warm smile. If you don't feel like smiling, don't force a smile, or smirk, or half-smile...just keep a straight, casual face.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

wildchild

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2002
Messages
342
Reaction score
2
Age
42
dj dreamer im not calling it "the real answer" im asking what is the real answer the half smile or the full smile. Im asking what is the best technique to use personally i always give people a full smile when i meet them but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen. Now i smile at every beautiful women i see and i found if you smile its eaiser to strike up a convo when there in smile mode.
 

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
Originally posted by wildchild
but i never ever done it with women because i thought it would make me look too keen.
I used to think that too. I stopped thinking that after women started complimenting me on my smile.
 

Tha Realnezz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
1,352
Reaction score
8
Originally posted by wildchild
I know alot of people on this say when you are looking at girls you should give them a half smile and others say give them a great big warm grin. Well i have experimented with both and found these outcomes:

1) If you give them a sorta inviting half smile with your mouth closed they do the same back.

2) If you give them a big huge inviting grin they do the same back.

What do you guys recommend maybe some female input from wyldfiire or another one of the ladies on this site would help?

If there's a shy or sexual body langaue packadged into that smile then yes.

IF the girl is trying to get your attention or make you laugh then by all means smile.

Most of the time I don't walk around cheese-faced or fake laughing at there dumb bullsh!T(cuz that's the mark of a wuss..compliance).
 
Top