Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Small signs that instantly turn you off with a chick

LuisGarcia10

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Flaking
It is one characteristic that I absolutely detest.

I appreciate that things come up, and occasionally you will have to cancel on someone, but 9 times out of 10 it's because they can't be bothered/ hae a better offer.

I'm quite a busy guy with work, I dont get a huge amount of time off, and one thing that I hate is setting aside time for someone, and then being cancelled on.

If It happens once with a girl I'll give her the benefit of the doubt, but any more than that and shes gone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker

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No as$
Fat
lack of stamina fvcking - if she can't fvck a long time, few can
not versatile enough for hard fvcking - some women just like it easy and are sensitive which is understandable - usually the older women, that's why I like young for the RANGE, older women tend to get upset or whine or whimper when you start dogging them, just my limited experience with 90+ women in my lifetime
Would rather not have tats but will fvck those with many tats but it's rare
Blocky women, no t!ts, no as5 just no shape
Women who are too "elite" for me, or country club type if-you-ain't-rich-you-aint-sh!t type, the snobs basically - I don't even want to talk to them if they don't respect me, just I go or you go just keep away from me cause you're all about materialism and who's who, you're Fake and I don't want no part of the fakery. I'll fvck her if she binds to me, but I will not Want her if she doesn't stop being a snob. I don't like snobby women, you know girls who are perpetually trapped in high-school cliquish thinking even into their 40s and 50s. I'm lucky to have girls (in our circle) who are not like that, just cool girls who want the best boy toy, me. When you get into that circle of girlfriends, it's a paradise unfathomable. When/if I ever lose that chain of hot girls, I'll be at a loss, for sure. I like free girls, and not pint-up judgmental and Hypocritical girls. It's My job to be hypocritical in their midst. Girls who think logically like men are kinda a turn-off, but each day is a different day, and what I like changes with what's going on in my life. They're all beneath me though and I can live without All of them.

Bigneil's "girls who watch too much TV" that too, girls too worried about entertainment iphones etc ~ turn-off, but I'll fvck em.
 

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1) doesn't exercise: I hate laziness

2) doesn't cook: not necessarily for me, but for herself. more laziness than anything. Gotta keep your body healthy for long-term wellness.

3a) always on her damn iphone/android: nothing is more annoying than being out with someone, male or female, and they have their phone in their lap/hands all the time.

3b) has a twitter account: AW at the max

4) has no sympathy for lesser creatures: For example, I was with a girl at a wildlife refuge, cause that's what I like to do. She kept wanting to hit the birds that had broken wings and couldn't fly away. My brain was telling me that this type of girl is messed up, and is a huge red flag in my book.

5) watches too much tv.

6) uses drugs of any kind.
 

Who Dares Win

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1)She implicetly means that I have to put much work with unsure outcome and that outcome which is unsure to me has been easily available to others.
This is extended to anything she can provide,make it sex,attention or caring behaviour.

2)Has past boyfriends who were the types who really can own a girl, banging her harder than what I could or providing something which I cannot provide, its not insecurity but simply evaluating the risks of aheadache and being cheated.

3)any hint of bossy or feminist behaviour.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*slaps forehead* How could I forget no ass?

I don't know if it's an automatic deal breaker...if she had a killer face I could probably make due, but when I check out girls in the street, if they don't have a nice, fat booty, they might as well be a 45 year old man in leggings. I feel no attraction to them. I never used to be that way, but the more successful you are, the choosier you can be. Why settle for a flat ass when you can hold out for a fat ass?


Justin Chaschowy said:
You sound like a douche. :down:
Thanks for the compliment.
 

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Masculine - wants to dominate the conversation, bossy, wants to debate, thinks she always knows the best, a feminist. This is by far THE WORST

Cold or distant personality

Slutty in an attention-seeking way

Disrespectful or catty towards her friends or family

Annoying voice

Short chicks (unless they're super-cute)

Ripped (I should never have to see a woman's rock-hard 8 pack, nasty)

Involved in roller-doll derby. What the fuck is that crap all about, anyways? Seems manly...

Actually, any overly-athletic chick. If I wanted to bang some hardcore protein-pounding softball player, I'd become a lesbo.

That leathery, freckly, sun-damaged skin women get on their chest.

Old-lady breath. Funny story - I met this bangin' hot mid 30s south american chick in one of my classes. Perfect petite body, great face (albeit showing her age a bit). Anyways, she comes up to talk to me and she has this rotten old-lady breath. Not the worst breath I've ever smelled, but just reminded me of my grandma when she forgot to brush her teeth. It killed the attraction for me :(
 

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Bad breath is one, but it has to be chronically bad. Everyone has a bit of bad breath time to time, especially right after meals, but if it's constant and can be detected at further than point blank range then it's a deal breaker.

Smoking as well, it's not just bad breath but bad taste as well. I can't kiss a chick who smokes, it's revolting.

MisterD said:
*slaps forehead* How could I forget no ass?

I don't know if it's an automatic deal breaker...if she had a killer face I could probably make due, but when I check out girls in the street, if they don't have a nice, fat booty, they might as well be a 45 year old man in leggings. I feel no attraction to them. I never used to be that way, but the more successful you are, the choosier you can be. Why settle for a flat ass when you can hold out for a fat ass?
I know, I almost once let it slide with one chick who had a flat ass but everything else about her was beautiful, it was just that once you saw her from any angle but the front you'd notice the total lack of ass behind those hips. However she turned out to be rather boring, a bit snobby, and had a bunch of stupid tattoos that I didn't see earlier on as I met her in the wintertime and they were all covered up. They were those stupid "literary quote" tattoos as well, which is another red flag of mine.

I'd rather (and have) take a chick who's a bit chubby but has nice tits and ass over a slender chick with no ass (like the one above). I never got to bang that other one but I imagine it'd not be that pleasant with no cushioning over those hip bones.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Xenon said:
3a) always on her damn iphone/android: nothing is more annoying than being out with someone, male or female, and they have their phone in their lap/hands all the time.
What this guy said. Not necessarily a turn off but fvck its annoying.
 

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Attention *****s
Face book *****s
Chicks who takes pics of them selves and post it on FB
 

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When she rules out at any point in the future the possability of a threesome
 

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Girls that don't offer to pay their half of the tab are a huge turn-off. We're told over and over again that we live in times of equality, but a lot of girls think they're entitled to free drinks and a meal just because they have a pair of tits.

I actually don't mind paying sometimes, but at least make a token offer!
 

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When she rules out at any point in the future the possability of a threesome
Nice one. :rockon:

I see these lists, and all the girls I dated had almost all of the negative criteria - in one. You could take the worst species in the universe - ie, Demons - and I probably got involved with them. I sometimes wonder why I haven't gone insane yet. For realz.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Three others I thought of:

Feminist: GTFO. Though most feminists IMO are closet lesbos anyway.

Liberal/ hippy/ occupy chick = totally clueless/drugged out of reality or have their own agenda.

An over the top flirt. The type who 'innocently' flirts with everyone.
 

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When she rules out at any point in the future the possability of a threesome

Oh hell no. I ever hear that 'slip' or I've 'experimented' with two guys or other women. I'm smiling and nodding. Then walking away. Period. I have no interest in any threesome.
 

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Any b1tch who constantly checks her smartphone. All I need to know that she aint sh1t...
 

Poonani Maker

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Naughty Ninja said:

Liberal/ hippy/ occupy chick = totally clueless/drugged out of reality or have their own agenda.
But a couple in that bunch can go all night long fvckin, Naughty. Depends on the drug. If meth, watch out! If she's into speed metal + meth, man, I mean, it's like, that sh!t started in Nazi Germany to make their soldiers super fighters, so in my experience, that explains the magnified sex you MAY experience with one of those drugged out "banshee" chicks we'd normally avoid.

I was with one all last Summer. THE best going down the rabbit hole sex I've ever had.
 

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Hustlaz Ambition said:
Any b1tch who constantly checks her smartphone. All I need to know that she aint sh1t...
Haha I'm sorry to say it, but your pool just got A LOT smaller...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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