“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Small sign of disrespect fro her imo I blocked her for my own self worth

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
So I met this 22 yo girl in Spain this summer, we kicked it off 3-4 days in a row.
Going out partying, having great cex (really great so thats important to know) and having fun.

I went back home and she moved to Madrid for studies with her best (female) friend.
Anyhow the months after she kept replying on my stories howmuch she missed me and we called a couple of times but I had a operation for a injury in my shoulder and I had to recover (didnt tell her) so I couldnt visit her. She invited me a couple of times but quit asking when I said im busy now I just can't.

we did call a couple of times to keep the Connection up.

Months and months later now I miss her and IM recovered and I text her to invite her over to my city 2 hours flight from Spain. She says call me now but I couldnt at that moment so I called her the next day. She picks up the phone:

She sounds very enthusiastic on the phone but says ''didnt you find a better option then me?'' I said no hahaha. But i couldve said, i dont know or keep it vague but whatever.

Then I said well lets do it send me your passport picture and I book a flight. She said okay ill do it later tonight. I hang up the phone but she didnt send nothing.
2 days later she posts a gym picture with her friend and I replie with ''hey babe send me the passport so i can arrange our weekend'' with a voice message.

Instead of replying she posts a video of a club with her friend having fun. So I just blocked her off snapchat at that point since I was like this is disrespect.

Yes I like her but this is just bull**** I know when a woman is fvcking around. I still got her on whatsapp though. Any thoughts on this?

Ofcourse its her ego that she invited me in the summer and I couldnt come, second shes having loads of fun in Madrid with her best friend so she has to leave her friend for a whole weekend so shes like you didnt come when I wanted it now im going to play games. But I still believe deep down, if shes really in2 you, shell move mountains.
 
Last edited:

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
You always strike while the iron is hot. You also could have communicated better. Not sure I fault her for much.

Yeah she is a little butt hurt, but can you blame her?
hmm yeah what can I do? I can text her but I dont wanna simp
 

Divorced w 3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2022
Messages
3,793
Reaction score
2,442
hmm yeah what can I do? I can text her but I dont wanna simp
But you did Simp. She didn’t get you the photo and you sent her a voice message follow up

why didn’t you just tell her that you had surgery at the time it happened? Do you realize the sympathy you would’ve gotten? She may have even flown to you to help you out!

problem of your own making.
 

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
P
But you did Simp. She didn’t get you the photo and you sent her a voice message follow up

why didn’t you just tell her that you had surgery at the time it happened? Do you realize the sympathy you would’ve gotten? She may have even flown to you to help you out!

problem of your own making.
True but what now
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,520
Reaction score
6,291
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
we called a couple of times but I had a operation for a injury in my shoulder and I had to recover (didnt tell her)
Captain Hindsight would say that you shouldn't have hidden the surgery from her, as she must have thought that you just weren't that into her. Vulnerability can actually be attractive; you don't have to be afraid of it.
 

BPH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2010
Messages
3,733
Reaction score
2,666
Location
Wilmington, DE
I went back home and she moved to Madrid for studies with her best (female) friend.
Anyhow the months after she kept replying on my stories howmuch she missed me and we called a couple of times but I had a operation for a injury in my shoulder and I had to recover (didnt tell her) so I couldnt visit her. She invited me a couple of times but quit asking when I said im busy now I just can't.
Months and months later now I miss her and IM recovered and I text her to invite her over to my city 2 hours flight from Spain. She says call me now but I couldnt at that moment so I called her the next day. She picks up the phone:
You met a younger girl and had a short summer fling with a girl you met on vacation...

You then proceeded to (for whatever reason) lie about why you couldn't visit her because of your shoulder operation...

You consistently respond with "I'm busy" when she invites you, so she stops trying...

You then wait MONTHS to contact her again, and when she excitedly asks you to call her, you put it off for a whole day...

Do you see where you went wrong, or do I have to spell it out? Others have already pointed out your mistakes and what you should've done. But then you continue digging yourself a hole by continuing to reach out to her when you don't get a reply, then get butt hurt and block her when you see what she's doing instead of obeying your commands.

You said that an interested woman will move mountains for you...I mean, there's your answer right there. You had a little fun, then dodged this girl for several months and let her come down from that high, and you're surprised she's not chomping at the bit to accommodate your schedule?

Between this and your other thread, you say you've continued learning, but have you? As @BackInTheGame78 replied above, you still seem to get really emotional over little things with women really fast, and have knee-jerk reactions when there isn't immediate submission to you.

Go read The Art of Seduction. There are anti-seducer traits that you should look to avoid, one of which, in your case, is certainly the Brute.
 

BillyPilgrim

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2021
Messages
5,883
Reaction score
4,695
You met a younger girl and had a short summer fling with a girl you met on vacation...

You then proceeded to (for whatever reason) lie about why you couldn't visit her because of your shoulder operation...

You consistently respond with "I'm busy" when she invites you, so she stops trying...

You then wait MONTHS to contact her again, and when she excitedly asks you to call her, you put it off for a whole day...

Do you see where you went wrong, or do I have to spell it out? Others have already pointed out your mistakes and what you should've done. But then you continue digging yourself a hole by continuing to reach out to her when you don't get a reply, then get butt hurt and block her when you see what she's doing instead of obeying your commands.

You said that an interested woman will move mountains for you...I mean, there's your answer right there. You had a little fun, then dodged this girl for several months and let her come down from that high, and you're surprised she's not chomping at the bit to accommodate your schedule?

Between this and your other thread, you say you've continued learning, but have you? As @BackInTheGame78 replied above, you still seem to get really emotional over little things with women really fast, and have knee-jerk reactions when there isn't immediate submission to you.

Go read The Art of Seduction. There are anti-seducer traits that you should look to avoid, one of which, in your case, is certainly the Brute.
OP would see better results if he dialed back the forcefulness, stubbornness, and emotionality. Not wholesale changes, but adjustments so he can get better outcomes without changing his personality. @TheGambino
 

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
Yep but can I turn it around with a honest text or just let it be
 

BPH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2010
Messages
3,733
Reaction score
2,666
Location
Wilmington, DE
Yep but can I turn it around with a honest text or just let it be
You can't turn it around. You already threw your fit. Just remember not to get emotional with the next one.
 

crowolf

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2019
Messages
224
Reaction score
197
You were too eager. Don't chase her anymore, it would be self-disrespect.
 

Barrister

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2018
Messages
2,811
Reaction score
4,962
Age
40
Don’t ever act out of emotion with women. Blocking this chick was an extreme reaction and wholly unnecessary. Unless she’s a full blown stalker I’ve never understood why men do it. You’re clearly communicating you’re bothered by her actions. A man should be calm, collected, and above anything she thinks she can do to make you upset.

That said, this woman wasn’t trying to upset you.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Top