Small sign of disrespect fro her imo I blocked her for my own self worth

[TheGambino]

Don’t ever act out of emotion with women. Blocking this chick was an extreme reaction and wholly unnecessary. Unless she’s a full blown stalker I’ve never understood why men do it. You’re clearly communicating you’re bothered by her actions. A man should be calm, collected, and above anything she thinks she can do to make you upset.

That said, this woman wasn’t trying to upset you.

what u say? I could send her a text where I state that I want to see her and have fun and that I would like to talk it through because I have high thoughts of her as a person and see if she replies or just let it be ?

I would try to fix this because she is attracted to me thats not the problem

 

[Barrister]

what u say? I could send her a text where I state that I want to see her and have fun and that I would like to talk it through because I have high thoughts of her as a person and see if she replies or just let it be ?

I would try to fix this because she is attracted to me thats not the problem

If she’s aware you blocked her it’s “Game Over” with this one and time to move on. If not (which seems highly unlikely given what you’ve said), I think you can send a brief text asking her to meet you in person to discuss. I understand there’s some distance involved but you won’t win over the phone.

All that said - I’d just move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea and you’ve more than likely already burned the bridge here. The amount of hoops you’ll have to jump through isn’t worth it IMO.

 

[The Duke]

what u say? I could send her a text where I state that I want to see her and have fun and that I would like to talk it through because I have high thoughts of her as a person and see if she replies or just let it be ?

I would try to fix this because she is attracted to me thats not the problem

Her physical attraction may still be there, but the mental attraction is likely gone and thats huge for women. Chalk this up as a lesson learned and move on. Thats what MEN do. Grow from the experience.

 

[TheGambino]

If she’s aware you blocked over it’s “Game Over” with this one and time to move on. If not (which seems highly unlikely given what you’ve said), I think you can send a brief text asking her to meet you in person to discuss. I understand there’s some distance involved but you won’t win over the phone.

All that said - I’d just move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea and you’ve more than likely already burned the bridge here. The amount of hoops you’ll have to jump through isn’t worth it IMO.

i blocked her on Snapchat not on whatsapp

 

[TheGambino]

Her physical attraction may still be there, but the mental attraction is likely gone and thats huge for women. Chalk this up as a lesson learned and move on. Thats what MEN do. Grow from the experience.

I had such a good time with her that I would try it and I invested some money on restaurants and driving and all that so I would try to make it work

 

[Barrister]

I had such a good time with her that I would try it and I invested some money on restaurants and driving and all that so I would try to make it work

You're letting yourself become a prisoner of the moment. You think because you lost her that she was this unicorn. In reality, she’s just a grain of sand on the beach. You wouldn’t have blocked her in the first place if she was so wonderful.

You’ve been here a long time and know how this works.

 

[TheGambino]

You're letting yourself become a prisoner of the moment. You think because you lost her that she was this unicorn. In reality, she’s just a grain of sand on the beach. You wouldn’t have blocked her in the first place if she was so wonderful.

You’ve been here a long time and know how this works.

I know its the truth what you say but we had a good time and she was happy for the idea to come over though it backfired so Quick with all this ****. I though I could save it but idk. Ill take Some time to think about it really well

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I know its the truth what you say but we had a good time and she was happy for the idea to come over though it backfired so Quick with all this ****. I though I could save it but idk. Ill take Some time to think about it really well

You barely know this woman. Her emotions with you won't last long until they become solidified over time.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You always strike while the iron is hot. You also could have communicated better. Not sure I fault her for much.

Yeah she is a little butt hurt, but can you blame her?

It’s not disrespectful. It’s a woman living her own life. She’s not sending a subliminal message by positing videos and photos of her living her life. He’s not the only follower. He’s not the only man she knows, or the only person in her life in general.

OP needs a complete overhaul of the way he sees the world. In his version of the story, since the moment they met, she essentially has no other motives in life, and she waits in the wings for months without his communication like a maiden in a tower in the fairy tale playing out in his own mind. She exists for him and him alone.

This thought process is a massive delusion. Nobody is wired the way he is expecting her to be.

Until his viewpoint on the world starts to align with the way life actually works, this will continue. It’s massively self centered.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

hmm yeah what can I do? I can text her but I dont wanna simp

Acting like a 5 year old child stomping their foot in the corner because they didn't get what they wanted seems pretty simp like to me.

 

[TheGambino]

Acting like a 5 year old child stomping their foot in the corner because they didn't get what they wanted seems pretty simp like to me.

@BackInTheGame78

its always so negative with u, seems jealous. You can never say this is good thats good but Here you shouldve done better. U pick out what went wrong and downgrade someone. Says a lot about your character and probably why your a keyboard jockey that has some shots every know and then because his game is on point because of the “studies”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

@BackInTheGame78

its always so negative with u, seems jealous. You can never say this is good thats good but Here you shouldve done better. U pick out what went wrong and downgrade someone. Says a lot about your character and probably why your a keyboard jockey that has some shots every know and then because his game is on point because of the “studies”

That's simply the truth. The fact you continue making the same mistakes time after time after time makes me wonder if you actually are wanting to work on improving things because it doesn't seem like you do.

There is nothing wrong with making mistakes, everyone does. There is everything wrong with making the same ones over and over again and not learning from them.

 

[TheGambino]

That's simply the truth. The fact you continue making the same mistakes time after time after time makes me wonder if you actually are wanting to work on improving things because it doesn't seem like you do.

There is nothing wrong with making mistakes, everyone does. There is everything wrong with making the same ones over and over again and not learning from them.

Well thats also the truth. This forum is for all of us a good place to hold on too in life dont forget that. But ok im hard headed thats true

 

[Divorced w 3]

if you actually are wanting to work on improving things

He has zero interest in changing anything about his approach. It’s not in his mindset right now. Not in the slightest.

 

[TheGambino]

He has zero interest in changing anything about his approach. It’s not in his mindset right now. Not in the slightest.

Nah ill take this seriousley though. Theres truth in it. I shouldve done this differently since i sincerley like her

 

[TheGambino]

case closed.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

All I see is a youngster who is still green when navigating the nature of women. You are not your emotions, you are the awareness who observes them. At least, thats how I conceptualize it.
Choose your emotions wisely. Yes, I do think we have to power to choose them.
I'm not trying to be argumentative. Your post actually reminded me when I was lacking emotional resiliency in rocky situations with women as a younger dude.

Peep it. She is giving you an opportunity to improve your game.
You could also welcome this with a positive attitude/mindset. You could simply laugh it off. You can be amused by the whole thing. It's your choice. Never lose your sense of humor over a b!tch. And never block a female over this nonsense.
Reeks of weakness.
If you were the none wiser with the female imperative then you would inject dread game to reel her back in. Pull the vanishing act without warning.
Women hold a lot of the cards, but the ability to either provide or withdraw your attention is a big one you'll always have.

Don't give women power over your emotions. They can't even control their own. Don't expect them to be delicate with yours.

 

[magushero18]

hahaha

 

[Vanderdonck]

You waited to long. Just take the lesson and learn from it.

It was a little childish of her but try to take this stuff in stride. It's not all about you. She knew you weren't "serious people" and went on with her life. Let her. Disrespect? Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Don’t ever act out of emotion with women. Blocking this chick was an extreme reaction and wholly unnecessary. Unless she’s a full blown stalker I’ve never understood why men do it. You’re clearly communicating you’re bothered by her actions. A man should be calm, collected, and above anything she thinks she can do to make you upset.

True.... but sometimes protecting your own peace can be more important

We do have a lot of women in the modern world that take great sport / pleasure in toying with men

I'm not sure if that's what was going on here as OP has a tendency to have melodramatic experiences with women at the best of times

I've blocked/ unfollowed women in the past that I'd rather just not have in my orbit at all