"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sleeping after the gym.

Lifeforce

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I was thinking about a habit I have. When I work out I go home and have three meals withing two-three hours. Then I feel like I want to collapse so I sleep for like two hours, very deep sleep.

I was wondering, since you repair your tissiue in your sleep, is this a good approach to be doing? It gives like 5 hours of muscle repair + 6-8 hours of sleep the same night. Plus the sleep after is usually very quality sleep.

Just tossing the question out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would think it is a good thing to do. Ive been recommended to rest and relax for like an hour after the workout.
 

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If your body feels like it wants the rest, give it the rest! No problem there mate.

As long as it doesn't mean you missing a meal, then go for it by all means.
 

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yeah relaxing after a heavy workout is good IMO too.

No I don't miss any meals. Ohh, I wouldn't stop doing it, I just wondered if it could have some positive side effects.

The thing that got me a little worried was eating so much carbs before sleep. But if I guess right it should head straight into the muscles and the liver as glykogen after the workout.
 

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GAH. Overthinking again. You need a slap, mate.

Your body'll make use of all the carbs, believe you me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bah! I get slapped enough from the ladies... *look fear inspiring*
 
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