"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sleeping after the gym.

Lifeforce

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I was thinking about a habit I have. When I work out I go home and have three meals withing two-three hours. Then I feel like I want to collapse so I sleep for like two hours, very deep sleep.

I was wondering, since you repair your tissiue in your sleep, is this a good approach to be doing? It gives like 5 hours of muscle repair + 6-8 hours of sleep the same night. Plus the sleep after is usually very quality sleep.

Just tossing the question out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would think it is a good thing to do. Ive been recommended to rest and relax for like an hour after the workout.
 

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If your body feels like it wants the rest, give it the rest! No problem there mate.

As long as it doesn't mean you missing a meal, then go for it by all means.
 

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yeah relaxing after a heavy workout is good IMO too.

No I don't miss any meals. Ohh, I wouldn't stop doing it, I just wondered if it could have some positive side effects.

The thing that got me a little worried was eating so much carbs before sleep. But if I guess right it should head straight into the muscles and the liver as glykogen after the workout.
 

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GAH. Overthinking again. You need a slap, mate.

Your body'll make use of all the carbs, believe you me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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Bah! I get slapped enough from the ladies... *look fear inspiring*
 
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