"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sleep quality vs life quality
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
if in new place takes 6 months to feel right with ur new spot too. learning new things manUnless in your own bed, you're not getting that deep REM sleep. Its evolutionary safety precaution to protect the body. Its why you get ****ed on tine difference or sleeping in a hotel.
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Ya man. Its fascinating stuff. I highly recommend that book, why we sleep. Its arguably top 5 maybe top 3 best books I've read in my life. Top 3 when i read 3/4 books a week. Sleep is so important. It bleeds into other areas of life. I've documented a 60-75% decrease in performance at the gym when under slept. I can imagine how much it affects and ages a person.if in new place takes 6 months to feel right with ur new spot too. learning new things man
I have darkened my room, bought new blinds, a sleep mask (looks retarded but i swear by a good one that fits plus is comfy), a door banner (it covers the edges of the doorway to block light from entering), new bedding, duvet, tempurpedic pillow, body pillow, bamboo pillow, and more.
I've seen a ton of improvements, optimization in the gym, new plateaus, more efficient at work (several promos), made more money than I did the year prior yet, clocking in less time, better game (less miss opportunity due to brain fog or under slept), and more. With game, less missed closes, more digits, less clumsy game via under slept, and sloppy as a result.
I no lonfer take sleep fir granted. I can better explain leaving after smashin lol and pulling the chute.
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Try 8. I know people who are Arnold saud you need 6. You nor i are arnie lolI need to sleep at least 7 hours or I feel phucked up.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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