"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slapping a girl in bed

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Have you ever done it?

I dont think i have ever explicitly slapped her during sex in a kinky way. I have grabbed her face with my hand hard, but never just went outright and started slapping.

I reckon it would be quite good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bukowski_merit

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yes, it's best to do it when you're fvcking her so hard that she can't react to it...

If you want to ease your way into it (and i do this) - go ahead and grab her face like you're talking about and kindda lift your fingers up and bring them down as kind of a "mini-finger smack"... do it again and increase how hard you're hitting her... see how she reacts - if she doen't - that's pretty much a green light to go all in on her.

enjoy...
 

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I think it depends. I met with a girl last night (first time after a LTR) and she wanted to be slapped across the face with hair pulling and all. Pretty cool.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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