"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slapping a girl in bed

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Have you ever done it?

I dont think i have ever explicitly slapped her during sex in a kinky way. I have grabbed her face with my hand hard, but never just went outright and started slapping.

I reckon it would be quite good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bukowski_merit

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yes, it's best to do it when you're fvcking her so hard that she can't react to it...

If you want to ease your way into it (and i do this) - go ahead and grab her face like you're talking about and kindda lift your fingers up and bring them down as kind of a "mini-finger smack"... do it again and increase how hard you're hitting her... see how she reacts - if she doen't - that's pretty much a green light to go all in on her.

enjoy...
 

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I think it depends. I met with a girl last night (first time after a LTR) and she wanted to be slapped across the face with hair pulling and all. Pretty cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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